I Finally Remembered a Song but I Forgot Again

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Rollercoaster of Emotions

Lovers come and go from our lives, merely their impact can exist felt fifty-fifty years subsequently. Nosotros've bared our souls, our bodies, our pasts as well as our hopes for the future to them. And so they finish up as sudden strangers or strained acquaintances.

Struggling to accept such a loss and eventually move on tin can send you on a rollercoaster of emotions. Heartbroken, yous may try to deny ever loving the person at all. You may feel confused as yous vacillate betwixt attraction and anger. Or you may express sad reminiscence, acceptance of your loss and a desire to find new love.

The more brazen of us may even thank our exes for breaking our hearts because nosotros weren't right for one another anyway. Wherever you are in the struggle to forget an ex-lover, here's a playlist of popular, rock, and country songs to permit you know that you're non solitary.

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1. "I'1000 Movin' On" by Rascal Flatts

This is a centre wrenching song. Whatever ghosts and demons the narrator in this 2000 country vocal has, they helped him wreak havoc on his relationship. He has finally let go of the blame, regret and guilt. Having lost everything that is important to him, he finds strength and promise in moving on.

2. "Shout Out To My Ex" by Little Mix

Accept this, former boyfriend! Full of rowdy spirit, this catchy 2016 pop song involves the narrator thanking a quondam lover of iv years for breaking her heart. Without him, she wouldn't exist the strong, happy person she is now:

Shout out to my ex, you're really quite the human.
You made my heart suspension, and that made me who I am.
Hither'south to my ex. Hey, look at me now.
Well, I'yard all the mode up; I swear you'll never, yous'll never bring me down.

three. "Own't Worth the Whiskey" past Cole Swindell

The narrator in this 2014 state vocal has run into an erstwhile lover in a bar tonight, and he'southward not about to permit her know that she still gets to him. He's willing to drinkable to a good country vocal, a buddy he hasn't seen in years, or a hard work at week.

Merely he won't be drowning his sorrows in whiskey over lost beloved. Because she merely own't worth it.

I don't care that you done me incorrect
'Cause I've already moved on
I don't care what his name is
Girl information technology is what it is.
I won't waste product a dime
Or the bartender'southward time
Trying to catch a buzz over the thought of us.

iv. "I Hate U I Love U" by Gnash (featuring Olivia O'Brien)

In this pop ballad from 2016, both partners are having trouble putting their broken relationship backside them. While one of them has establish a new partner and is making pocket-sized steps to try to heal, his ex ruminates in her emotional wounds:

I hate yous, I love you lot,
I hate that I love you.
Don't want to but I can't put nobody else to a higher place you lot.

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This makes me want to shake her and tell her, "Girl, y'all stop it right now! Become yourself to the gym and brand yourself the hottest ex-girlfriend that boy has ever had."

v. "DONE" by The Band Perry

Don't go looking for the chick in this 2013 state song to shed tears over her ex. She knows that sometimes information technology's necessary to fire a bridge. (That's my kinda lady!) Tired of put-downs and being strung along, she'due south decided she is DONE.

I'one thousand through, with you
You're one span I'd like to burn
Scatter the ashes, smash the urn
I'chiliad through with you lot ... .

half-dozen. "Since U Been Gone" by Kelly Clarkson

The narrator in this 2004 pop song is then completely over her ex. He blew his one time hazard with her, and now he is out of sight out of mind. Strong and sassy, she feels similar she can breathe for the first time and is finally realizing her potential. (Woo hoo! Go girl!) In other words, "Cheers for breaking upwardly with me. You lot did me a freaking favor."

vii. "Like I Would" by Zayn

Under the influence, the narrator of this 2016 pop song has lost his inhibitions. He calls his former partner to unleash some artlessness her manner.

Although he is still stuck in the by emotionally, his ex-girlfriend has institute someone new. However, her new flame can't honey her better than he does:

He won't bear on you like I exercise
He won't love you similar I would
He don't know your torso
He don't do you correct
He won't love you like I would
Love you similar I would.

"People change and forget to tell each other." - Lillian Hellman, American screenwriter

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viii. "Grinning" by Lily Allen

The young woman in this 2006 rock song has a serious dark streak. She was left heartbroken and mentally "messed up" past a erstwhile lover who now wants her back. Nonetheless, his tears and regret now make her smile. Tin y'all imagine beingness her next beau?

9. "Bet You Still Retrieve of Me" past Blake Shelton

If you're guessing that Blake Shelton wrote this 2016 country song with ex-wife Miranda Lambert in listen, he's already best-selling that. In it, the narrator reflects on a past human relationship, wondering where his ex-partner is and what she is doing. She was always the wild and free blazon. He nonetheless thinks of her and imagines it'south mutual. (I'm not certain I'd give him the satisfaction of knowing that.)

10. "Somebody That I Used To Know" by Gotye (featuring Kimbra)

One moment yous're lovers, and and so information technology's over. Before you know it, the honey of your life is just somebody that you used to know. They cake you on Facebook. Unfollow you on Instagram. Information technology gets all weird.

The guy in this 2011 pop ballad hung on to his ex'due south balls that they could nevertheless be friends. But mayhap he was too clingy. She changed her number, had her friends retrieve her last remaining stuff. Information technology's left him however grieving. Yep, this one'due south going to hurt for a long time, specially because he seems like the sensitive type.

11. "I Wish" past Toni Braxton and Babyface

Forget about being all mature about a breakdown. In this 2014 song, the narrator makes a number of wishes for her ex-lover and his new partner. She hopes that his current sweetheart:

• cheats on him and makes him cry
• gives him a miserable illness
• spends all his money and
• has a baby boy (because a girl would mean the world to a woman).

12. "Send My Love (To Your Lover)" by Adele

In this 2015 pop song, Adele informs her ex-lover that all past transgressions are forgiven. She accepts responsibility for her part of the relationship gone wrong in addition to casting blame on him. Instead of feeling jealousy towards her ex's new partner, she wishes the couple well and makes it articulate she's only looking forward.

That's very adult of yous, Adele.

13. "Should've Gone to Bed" past Patently White T's

Oh, the drunk dial. The guy in this 2013 pop song is fine all twenty-four hours long. Just in the evenings, he downs a few drinks, knows he should just sleep it off, but can't resist calling his ex-girlfriend around midnight. The side by side forenoon, he tin't even recall exactly what he said, simply he has a sinking feeling information technology's not good.

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14. "Don't Wanna Know" by Maroon 5 (featuring Kendrick Lamar)

In this 2016 song, friends of the narrator know better than to bring up his ex-lover's name. All of his thoughts pb back to her. He wonders who she'south with, who's loving her, whether she thinks of him, and if she's happy. But and so he wrestles with whether he really wants to know the answers.

15. "I Got the Boy" by Jana Kramer

Seeing a high schoolhouse fellow'southward wedding photograph in the local newspaper has sparked old memories for the woman in this 2015 country song. She recalls their teenage dreams and the adventures they shared, so contrasts that with the prototype of the grown up, newly married homo.

I got the first osculation and she'll go the last.
She's got the futurity and I got the by.
I got the grade ring, she got the diamond and wedding ceremony band.
I got the male child and she got the man.

16. "When She Was Mine" by Lawson

The heartsick narrator in this song from 2012 believed his life was perfect when he was with his girlfriend, but at present he is constantly reminded of what is missing from his life. Although he has tried to wipe her from his memory, he finds that he needs her.

17. "Y'all Suck" by Abigail Breslin

The narrator in this funny 2014 song has an ex-young man who was a player, then at present she lets him know that she was she was never all that into him anyhow. She doesn't capeesh his lying, he's not as hot as he thinks he is, and she certainly doesn't wish him well. So there.

eighteen. "Forget Yous" by Cee Lo Dark-green

What exercise you do when your honey ditches yous for someone with more flash and money? In this 2010 popular song, you say "forget you" (the clean version) or "f**k y'all" (the dirty version).

The narrator'due south love interest was a aureate digger and has left him for someone for a Ferrari and a lot more Benjamins. Lamentable, buddy! Next time, pick a girl who isn't quite as shallow.

19. "Honey Will Remember" by Selena Gomez

The narrator in this 2013 pop song is so disillusioned. She doesn't understand how mutual promises and expressions of emotion could simply be gone now:

You said you loved me, I said I loved you dorsum
What happened to that? What happened to that?
All your promises and all them plans nosotros had
What happened to that? What happened to that?

xx. "Missing You" past John Waite

This narrator in this classic rock vocal has been left by the woman he loves. He hears others talk nigh her and struggles with the memories. John Waite originally recorded the the song in 1984 and so released it equally a duet in 2007 with Alison Krauss, a bluegrass/country artist.

Even More than Songs About Trying to Get over an Ex

Practice you take a song suggestion for our playlist about trying to motility on from an ex? Get out the states a comment in the Comment Section below!

Song	Artist	Twelvemonth Released
21. Relapse	Carrie Underwood	2015
22. Problem	Ariana Grande (featuring Iggy Azalea)	2014
23. Lips Of An Angel	Hinder	2005
24. Everybody's Got Somebody But Me	Hunter Hayes	2011
25. Never Say Never	Basement Jaxx	2014
26. 21 Summer	Brothers Osborne	2016
27. Dear John	Taylor Swift	2010
28. Behind These Hazel Optics	Kelly Clarkson	2004
29. Cool	Gwen Stefani	2004
30. California	Amelia Lily	2014
31. Over Yous	Seasick Steve	2013
32. Before Information technology's Over	Sixx: A.Chiliad.	2014
33. Come On	Lucinda Williams	1988
34. Just Like Me	Betty Who	2014
35. Loud and Articulate	Olly Murs	2012
36. How Could You lot Babe	Tobias Jesso Jr.	2015
37. Mary Lee	Jamie T.	2014
38. Should've Known Better	Richard Marx	1987
39. Brighton Embankment	Rod Stewart (featuring Jim Cregan)	2013
forty. Better Than Yous Left Me	Mickey Guyton	2015
41. If the Phone Doesn't Band, It's Me1	Jimmy Buffett	1985
42. Someone Like You	Adele	2011
43. So What	Pink	2008
44. Await at Yous	Big & Rich	2014
45. Emily	Bowling for Soup	2002
46. Dwelling house Alone Tonight	Luke Bryan	2015
47. Chainsaw	Nick Jonas	2016
48. Bet U Wish U Had Me Back	Halestorm	2009
49. Black Lake	Björk	2015
fifty. Give Me Dorsum My Hometown	Eric Church building	2014
51. Bourbon in Kentucky	Dierks Bentley	2014
52. Stone Cold	Demi Lovato	2015
53. Likewise Trivial, Also Belatedly	JoJo	2006
54. The Other Side Of Him	Toby Keith	2014
55. Thinking of Yous	Katy Perry	2008
56. This Boondocks	Niall Horan	2016
57. Your Side of Town	Maddie & Tae	2015
58. Love the One You're With	Stephen Stills	1971
59. What Hurts the Most	Rascal Flatts	2003
60. Unbreak My Heart	Toni Braxton	1996
61. Honey Yourself	Justin Bieber	2015
62. We Don't Talk Anymore	Charlie Puth	2016
63. Wrecking Ball	Miley Cyrus	2013
64. Cry Me A River	Justin Timberlake	2002
65. Hair	Petty Mix	2015
66. Same One-time Love	Selena Gomez	2015
67. l Means to Say Bye	Train	2012
68. Getting Over You	Keith Anderson	2005
69. I Weep	Westlife	2001
seventy. Don't Cry Out Loud	Melissa Manchester	1978
71. Sometimes I Weep	Chris Stapleton	2015
72. If You Encounter Him (If You lot See Her)	Reba McEntire (featuring Brooks & Dunn)	2009
73. You Don't Know Her Like I Exercise	Brantley Gilbert	2011
74. Better Homo	Fiddling Big Town	2016
75. Happier	Ed Sheeran	2017
76. Every Fiddling Matter	Carly Pearce	2016
77. Words I Couldn't Say	Rascal Flatts	2006
78. Like Nix Ever Happened	Sylvia	1982
79. What It Takes	Aerosmith	1990
80. Ask Me How I Know	Garth Brooks	2016
81. How Not to	Dan + Shay	2016
82. Sober Sabbatum Night	Chris Young (featuring Vince Gill)	2016
83. Fading Similar a Flower	Roxette	1991
84. Amnesia	v Seconds of Summertime	2014
85. So You Don't Have to Love Me Anymore	Alan Jackson	2012
86. Scarlet Red Vino	UB40	1983
87. Whiskey to Wine	Garth Brooks (featuring Trisha Yearwood)	2016
88. Wine Afterwards Whiskey	Carrie Underwood	2012
89. One Number Away	Luke Combs	2018
90. Crying Similar a Church on Monday	New Radicals	1998
91. Tin can't Let Go	Landon Pigg	2006
92. Downtown'due south Expressionless	Sam Hunt	2018
93. Party Crowd	David Lee Murphy	1995
94. Attending	Charlie Puth	2017
95. We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together	Taylor Swift	2012
96. Must've Never Met You	Luke Combs	2018
97. Prevarication to Me	5 Seconds of Summertime	2018
98. Solo	Make clean Bandit (featuring Demi Lovato)	2018
99. Happy Now	Zedd and Elley Duhé	2018
100. Tequila	Dan + Shay	2018
101. I Can't Forget Her	Dierks Bentley	2009
102. Crying in the Rain	The Everly Brothers	1962
103. She Got the Best of Me	Luke Combs	2018
104. Saved	Khalid	2017
105. Impossible	James Arthur	2013
106. Desire Y'all Back	5 Seconds of Summer	2018
107. Comfortable	John Mayer	1999
108. King of Wishful Thinking	Go West	1990
109. Impossible	Shontelle	2010
110. What Might Accept Been	Little Texas	1993
111. The Truth	Jason Aldean	2009
112. Hello	Adele	2015
113. Princess of China	Coldplay (featuring Rihanna)	2011
114. What If I Never Get Over You	Lady Antebellum	2019
115. Common salt	Ava Max	2018
116. White Flag	Dido	2003
117. Don't Think I Don't Recollect Nearly It	Darius Rucker	2008
118. Sober Saturday Dark	Chris Young	2015
119. It Only Hurts When I Weep	Dwight Yoakum	1990
120. It But Hurts When I'yard Breathing	Shania Twain	2002
121. seven Summers	Morgan Summers	2020
122. Not Okay	Kygo & Chelsea Cutler	2019
123. I'g Never Getting Over You	Gone Due west	2020
124. What Could've Been	Gone West	2019
125. Except for Monday	Lorrie Morgan	1991
126. Tuesday Morning	The Pogues	1993
127. Can't Permit Go	Mariah Carey	1991
128. I See You	Luke Bryan	2014
129. Wish You Were Gay	Billie Eilish	2019
130. Drivers License	Olivia Rodrigo	2021
131. Baby, You Bulldoze Me Crazy	Sam Smith	2018
132. He Went to Jared	Hardy (featuring Morgan Wallen)	2019
133. 7500 OBO	Tim McGraw	2020
134. Her World or Mine	Michael Ray	2018
135. Paradise Lost on Me	Zac Brown Band	2021
136. More Than My Hometown	Morgan Wallen	2020
137. Bandaid on a Bullet Hole	Morgan Wallen	2021
138. Wrecked	Imagine Dragons	2021
139. Right Where You lot Left Me	Taylor Swift	2020
140. Brainstorm Again	Adam Melchor	2021
141. skillful four u	Olivia Rodrigo	2021
142. Record Year	Eric Church	2015
143. Everywhere	Tim McGraw	1997
144. Missing	Everything just the Girl	1994

Information technology will exist OK.

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Questions & Answers

Question: Should I contact a former girlfriend from high school to grab upwardly and see how her life turned out? I'g married, but I have always wondered what happened to her.

Reply: Contacting a former lover to see how they're doing is risky. Many people practice it using Facebook or other social media sites. Remember hard before you accomplish out.

The best thing that could happen is that you satisfy your curiosity. (Then what?). Other things could also occur. These might include an emotional or concrete affair, which happens more often than you might imagine in this situation, disappointing news about how her life turned out, your respective spouses feeling uncomfortable most the rekindled friendship, or you feeling disappointed or rejected if she doesn't reply like y'all wait or you have cipher in common anymore.

There are reasons you broke up and lost contact. Leave the past in the past if you want to remain happily married. If you have any doubts, then ask your wife for permission to contact your old lover and be ready for her questions.

Question: How do I stop feeling jealous nearly my ex's new boyfriend?

Answer: You believe he has something you lot don't and are jealous for two main reasons:

i) you're still emotionally invested in your ex and the memories of your relationship

2) y'all perceive that her new boyfriend satisfies her relationship needs better.

Here are some ideas:

one) Ignore them. Since you must actually pay attention to someone to be jealous, consider how you can extricate your ex and her new relationship from your life. Unfriend/unfollow them both on social media, don't discuss them with others, don't take your ex's telephone calls if she'southward trying to be "just friends" with you, etc. Being strangers with them will allow you to simply not know the details.

2) Reduce your emotional investment in your ex. Delete the photos of you and her. Also, either throw away or put abroad in a sealed box all the memorabilia from your relationship (e.g., cards, gifts, messages). Out of sight, out of mind.

3) Do a realistic retention review on your ex and the relationship. When nosotros've suffered heartbreak or are missing someone, there'south a tendency to skip over the bad memories. We don't generally retrieve them as common cold, untrustworthy, selfish, disquisitional, callous, aloof, etc. You may be over-glamorizing your ex by conveniently forgetting all of those negative traits. Remember her equally she actually was in the relationship with you earlier you broke up. Brand a list of descriptors with specific examples. When you're feeling jealous, look dorsum over the list and be happy she is someone else's problem.

4) Accept a good look at your ain self-esteem, and work on building your own happiness (whatever that ways for y'all). If you concentrate on your own success, wellness, and happiness and being the most positive person you can be, yous will attract others your style. Eventually, one of those others will be a new lady friend who volition make yous completely forget near your quondam girlfriend. Make peace that your ex is gone and the residue will autumn into place for y'all personally.

Question: I want to text my sometime young man from 8 months ago how he helped me and that I miss our friendship, only nosotros don't really similar each other much. What should I do?

Answer: You lot say yous actually don't like one another much. No matter what you telephone call yourselves -- friends, romantic partners or strangers -- without liking and mutual respect, you lot'll just bicker and argue. If yous experience strongly, perhaps you should accept a discussion. Start it with a text to the outcome of, "I miss our friendship, merely nosotros don't seem to like one some other much." Make sure he knows what you want (friendship vs. getting dorsum together) and give thanks him for talking to yous.

Question: My ex-boyfriend and I broke up 3 months ago, and I haven't gotten over him. He has a new girlfriend that he is texting, but he'southward also chatting to me. Although I want him back, he'southward giving mixed signals about his feelings. His daughter cannot find out that he withal has feelings for me. What should I practice?

Answer: You're assuasive him to accept ii girlfriends. Are you okay with that -- being his "side chick"? Have an honest chat about how y'all both feel and what you each want and become all the information out into the open. And so make a determination. Don't participate in a surreptitious relationship. This cheats you and the other girl. She may non want a guy who goes backside her back and chats up another girl. He's untrustworthy. Honor yourself in a higher place all.

Question: I just got rejected by someone I really liked. What exercise you recommend doing to go over him?

Answer: Get-go, realize that everyone has experienced personal rejection like this, so please don't be so hard on yourself. You may be chirapsia yourself upward with questions like, "Is there something wrong with me?" That'southward completely unnecessary and self-defeating, so if you're doing that, and then kindly stop at present. Consider this rejection to be But ONE data signal in a lifetime of data most yourself. Your self-esteem is much stronger than this ane footling data point, right?

Although the rejection feels intensely personal considering it's fresh, we as well understand that sometimes we don't empathise what motivates our attraction (or lack of it) to someone else. Some other person can have all the "correct" qualities, merely oddly, nosotros merely may non be feeling it and can't quite articulate the vague reasons why. Allure may be hard to explain or turn on or off. In that location are important biochemical and fifty-fifty genetically-driven components to allure that you can't mayhap change.

In getting over him, focus on positivity and yourself. Don't avoid him and try non to ruminate. Humor helps a lot so seek out funny movies, true cat videos, a one-act gild with friends, or whatever will make you laugh. Likewise try to exercise considering endorphins are the torso'south natural "feel-good drug." Practice something fun and rewarding with friends that will heave your mood in a good for you way (e.thou., group mani/pedis, escape room outing). Listen to positive, mood-boosting music such equally the Positive Vibe Playlist: Happy and Uplifting Songs to Put You in a Good Mood https://hubpages.com/playlists/Feel-Great-Playlist... If you write, pigment, enjoy photography, do crafts, or otherwise artistically express yourself, consider some projects that volition constructively occupy you and assist movement yous forward. Of class, besides talk to someone you trust nearly your feelings during this fourth dimension so that you can proceed things in perspective and focus on the future.

I'm sad you had to face this, only I feel confident that you lot'll get through it with some fourth dimension and support.

Question: Why can't I stop thinking most my ex so much? She broke me and I haven't loved anyone since her, but she hates me. What exercise I do to stop thinking nigh my ex?

Respond: You don't say how long it's been since y'all and your partner bankrupt upward, only breakups involve the death or demise of a honey human relationship. Equally a result, nosotros grieve lost beloved. All of a sudden there are changes to your social support organization, your identity (eastward.thou., being "x's fellow"), daily routine, possibly even the place you alive and your future plans.

Therefore, allow yourself the time to procedure what went wrong between you, especially if information technology was a bad breakup. Endeavour to talk to a trustworthy, understanding friend who values your privacy so they can assistance you sort out your feelings. Just existence listened to helps. Concentrate on your own happiness and becoming healthier, both mentally and physically. Make sure to exercise and socialize, even if you don't feel like it.

If you are in electric current significant distress or if you are still having difficulty afterward six months or so, consider seeking a qualified mental health counselor so you can identify and resolve any unhealthy behaviors or bug in your past relationships. Y'all cannot command how your ex feels nigh y'all (her "antisocial" y'all), so just concentrate on yourself and moving on. Let her be in accuse of herself and you just exercise yous.

Question: What exercise I do if my ex-boyfriend is making rumors upward well-nigh me, and showing his girlfriend fake texts that apparently I sent?

Respond: Respond to rumors and innuendo with apathy. The more than oxygen you lot requite them, the more than you lot fan the flames of jealousy. Turn the other cheek (as hard as that may exist) and you'll notice that it will meliorate.

Question: My ex cheated on me with multiple girls. I even so love him, but I also want to get over him for my sake. What can I practise?

Answer: Your ex didn't deserve your love, and some would say that what you feel for him isn't love at all because it isn't based on trust or mutual respect. That's non your mistake.

Plow your efforts radically in, investing in what makes you a happier, more fulfilled, better person. Maybe that means beauty pampering (a spa day, a new hair fashion), reinvesting in time with friends, taking up a new skill or hobby, volunteering, seeing funny movies or doing things that make yous express joy, writing in a journal or otherwise creatively expressing yourself, or committing yourself to exercise. Not just will this personal fulfillment entrada help yous at present but it will also somewhen draw healthier relationships your way.

Question: How do I get guys to actually love me instead of leaving me and making me heartbroken?

Answer: While there'south no surefire guarantee confronting a broken heart, you'll increase your chances tremendously by loving yourself first and boosting your self-confidence. If YOU don't value you, how can you expect others to do so? This includes not permitting anyone in your social circle to treat y'all disrespectfully, even in small ways.

Phone call people out for their inappropriate behavior and clearly communicate your needs, feelings, and expectations. Don't put up with lying, adulterous, and rude behavior, and don't engage in it either. Sometimes heartbreak is a mismatch in needs or miscommunication while at other times it'due south maliciously motivated. Learn the difference.

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FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on August 26, 2020:

Tejasvi - Become alee and call out of the bluish. Do not text. It'southward the pandemic and it's super okay to cheque on how people are doing. You don't accept to take an excuse. Only say that you lot were thinking about him and were wondering how he was doing. Don't spill your guts. Take it slow.

Tejasvi on August 26, 2020:

Its been more than 1 year since we broke up but I still miss him, I actually wanna know how he is.. I could accept texted him merely my cocky respect is coming in between. I really desire to hate him, forget him know matter how hard I effort I just tin't.. Im soo much in pain that I wanna cry out loud just I don't know my tears doesn't come out.. I can't slumber at night, and I just can't tell this to anyone.. I don't know what to do... Someone help me.

FlourishAnyway (author) from U.s. on July 13, 2020:

Chile - Although you technically didn't actually ask a question, I tin can requite you my perspective. If you are still geographically distanced from the ex, I don't see what's realistically inverse in your actual relationship with him. Fifty-fifty if yous got dorsum together, how would y'all expect it to be unlike between yous this time? If you're still interested in pursuing the romance, y'all need to know how he feels about you. He seems to have moved on, but y'all could do a friendly check-in to verify how life has been treating him. If he seems as interested as you are, you may exist in business. Withal, realize that he IS dating someone else. Your conscience will need to wrestle with that. I'd forget virtually him unless you truly recollect he is "the i."

If you lot and your "all-time friend" were that shut, then she'd know how you feel virtually the guy already. Did you not share that with her? Would you really desire to be friends with someone who would poach your love interests? Would she? I suspect the friendship is more than shallow that you think. Aren't there enough guys to get around in the world without having to take a "best friend'south" leftover boyfriend? Information technology'south best to take an honest discussion with your friend. If information technology were me, I'd definitely ditch the friend and would redouble my efforts to move on from the guy unless I were convinced he was the forever guy.

Chile on July 11, 2020:

I have a question I broke up with my ex a year ago and he has a new girlfriend that used to exist my bestfriend but we're still friends I bankrupt upwardly with him because long distance human relationship call up I was over him and it had been a year now and I can't stop thinking about him but he is still with her

FlourishAnyway (author) from Us on May 08, 2020:

Rachel - Wish them well in a depression key style and cut them both out of your life. They deserve each other. That guy is poison and that gal is not your friend.

Rachel Demere on May 08, 2020:

I like shout out to my ex. My ex was really mean and never talked to me and always told other girls they looked cute and that he was e'er gratuitous and I but froze Everytime and just let him hang out with other girls and just pretended similar it never happened. I don't know what to practice. I even so similar him but he is with my bff and they are beautiful. He doesn't do the things he did to me. But he had also said that I was useless and a lot of other things. He really left me for his current wife and now has 3 kids.

FlourishAnyway (writer) from Usa on Apr 26, 2020:

Peggy - Thank you for your visit. Take a wonderful Sunday. I hope you are doing well.

Peggy Woods from Houston, Texas on Apr 25, 2020:

Because I similar the idiot box evidence, "The Voice," I listened to a Kelly Clarkson and a Blake Shelton song that I had not heard previously. Thank you for assembling this list.

FlourishAnyway (author) from United states of america on Oct 24, 2019:

Guao - Good luck to you. Glad you lot enjoyed the songlist.

Guao on October 24, 2019:

Thanks for your communication.... At present I tin can make up my listen better.

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on September 12, 2019:

Tonia - I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope you are able to put back the pieces of your life. And I hope the scoundrel gets what he deserves.

Tonia on September 11, 2019:

My husband left me for his ex wife, This was simply 2 years of our marriage. The most painful thing as that I was significant with our 2nd baby. I really thought it was over that I lost information technology all

FlourishAnyway (author) from U.s.a. on August 25, 2019:

Rachel200 - Whether you alter seats in the electric current course so that you cannot see him or you transfer out of your class, brand the change NOW and ditch this loser. He's wasting your valuable time and disrespecting you. You are worth more than this. Although yous may have feelings for him, he doesn't know how to value you in return. The mode he is treating you is juvenile and cocky-serving. Let him become sow his wild oats. Information technology's meliorate to be unmarried than distressing and stuck with someone like this. Skilful luck! Ignore him the best you can.

Rachel200 on August 24, 2019:

My bf wants to become back together, but afer getting back he ignores me ,and flirts with others girls to make me jealous..i know he is not skillful for me ..but iblove him and i hope he changes..nosotros become to the same classes and there he flirts with other girls..do u think leaving the class and joining other class would exist a skillful idea ..but if i go out the class..i take to face up him in college..and that would be embarrassing..i dont know what to exercise .

FlourishAnyway (author) from Us on August 20, 2019:

Jean Marie Booc - At that place are and then many people in the globe. Find someone who will value you and treat yous well.

Jean Marie Booc on August nineteen, 2019:

We simply broke last to my ex-boyfrend November 2017.yes I was suffer from existence broken hearted from him 3months then afterward that he was chatted be and and so me also replied him ,,later that I encounter him in one case every month even he. Take girlfriend,,and I thought I already over him but ,I'm not,,now he really don't want me anymore but he just said that we still friends,,but for me I tin't have that .

FlourishAnyway (author) from United states of america on Baronial 09, 2019:

Seb - I'm sorry about your heartbreak, just it'south actually for the best in the long run. This person made a commitment to someone else (his nuptials vows). I hope you detect someone who is really complimentary to give his heart away to you. As far as songs, I like "I Miss Y'all" by Klymaxx (1985). There are a TON of songs about missing someone you lot love: https://spinditty.com/playlists/Missing-Y'all-Playli...

Seb on August 06, 2019:

I met this dude in May 2018, and was immediately attached to him. I hadn't seen him in a picayune over than two months later that day, but then starting that Baronial, I saw him everyday until this last May. Through those months, I have grown to adore every aspect of him, and it wasn't until six months after that I decided to acknowledge my feelings for him to myself, and non until two months later that, that I realized something I wish I didn't: That I was, in fact, in love with him. It's everything nigh him, actually. I won't get into information technology, but long story short, I won't see him ever again. The concluding time we did run into each other was really bittersweet, and I miss him more than anything. I retrieve correct here is where I should say that he is married and 15 years older. I've never fabricated a motility or tried or thought nigh it, it would exist completely atrocious if I did. I'm about to accept a big stride in my life right now, and I realize that I miss him more always. I've always missed him around, but right at present, I wish I had his support like I ever did. I tin can't explicate the feeling I had when I kickoff met him. Do you lot take any song recommendations for my situation or something resembling it? :(

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on July 17, 2019:

Jimmy - Thanks for noticing the double entry. I capeesh you.

jimmy on July xvi, 2019:

you put someone like you by adele on there twice, supervene upon one of them with we are never always getting back together past taylor swift (2012)

FlourishAnyway (author) from Usa on March 21, 2019:

Anna - I'm sorry about your husband. It's not a skillful sign when anyone is that jealous.

Anna on March xx, 2019:

My husband left me because I got a new outfit for work. I wanted to feel pretty , for myself, but he got it all incorrect and thought I was flirting to some guy from the office.I said NO, just he didn´t believe me, so he asked a "fortune teller" to read the tarot cards for him , and everything was "confirmed", I cried and begged him to believe me, just he decided to believe that woman .I am devastated.

FlourishAnyway (writer) from United states on December 12, 2018:

Amanda - Thanks for that excellent proposition!

Amanda on December 10, 2018:

A song to add:

Name: Incommunicable

Artist: James Arthur

Year Released: 2013

FlourishAnyway (author) from The states on July 22, 2018:

Angela - I'm sorry to hear that. Unfortunately, information technology seems similar he has moved on with his life, so it'south probably best for you if you did the same. There will be other people you volition connect with romantically. He's non the only man in this earth of 7.five billion people. Pick up the pieces and heal.

Angela on May 16, 2018:

I experience used and miss him a lot. I tried to make up with him multiple times, trying to talk to him merely everything failed and I don't know what to do. He told me that he has stopped thinking almost me,

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on March 31, 2018:

Kristina - Thanks for the endorsement.

kristina on March 31, 2018:

Full recommendation I would similar to recommend to anyone suffering from breakup.

FlourishAnyway (writer) from USA on January 16, 2017:

Dear Faith Reaper - We sure have missed y'all hither. Can't wait to encounter you lot back writing again. I hope your husband heals nicely and that you've been happy and well. Happy New Year to you!

Faith Reaper from southern USA on January 16, 2017:

Happy New year, Dear Flourish!

I'yard off for the holiday today and thought I'd pop in to read a bit and see what I've missed ....missed a lot!

You're still the Queen of the great playlists. I do know a lot of these songs, particularly the country songs, but I love John Waite'southward Missing Yous from and then long ago.

I promise to get back to writing here soon. My married man had knee joint replacement surgery and then merely other life issues kept me away.

Peace and blessings always, dear lady

FlourishAnyway (author) from U.s.a. on January 01, 2017:

a - "A" stands for "awesome." Cheers and have a Happy New Yr!

a on January 01, 2017:

Here are mine

Say Something-A Smashing Big World - Say Something I am giving upward on you

Love Yourself - Justin Bieber - I volition exist moving on

We Don't Talk Anymore- Charlie Puth Nosotros Don't Talk Anymore like we used

Too Good - Drake - I'yard too good for

Wrecking Ball - Miley Cyrus aI put you upwardly in the sky now your not coming down

Cry Me a River - Justin Timberlake Yous told me you dearest me why did y'all leave me

Hair - Little Mix - Goota become him out of my hair

Blow Me I Final Kiss -Punk I retrieve I finally had enough

Aforementioned Old Dearest -Selena Gomez - I'm ill of that aforementioned quondam love

50 means to say Bye - Train Help Me Help me I'm out of lies

Babe I'one thousand Going Leace Yous - Led Zeppelin I will let the title speak for itself

Yves on December 07, 2016:

Thanks for adding those, Flourish. So sweet of you. I wish you a joyous holiday as well!!

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on December 07, 2016:

Savvy - Cheers for the bang-up additions. I've included them as 59 & 60. You lot're right almost ruminating about one'southward ex. While habitation on the past, one may miss the side by side dandy love or underinvest in the current relationship which isn't fair to anyone. I promise you are well. Have a wonderful holiday flavor!

Yves on December 06, 2016:

Wonderful Playlist, Flourish! I have ii favorites which I would like to contribute:

1) What Hurts The Virtually by Rascall Flatts

What hurts the most was existence then close

And havin' so much to say

And watchin' you walk away.... (Sigh, information technology gets me every fourth dimension)

2) Unbreak My Heart by Toni Braxton

United nations-break my heart

Say you'll love me once more

Undo this hurt you lot caused

When you walked out the door...

The only problem is that although a break-up occurred, the person who was left backside still longs for their lover and they're not making much of an endeavor to get over the ex. Lol.

FlourishAnyway (writer) from United states on December 05, 2016:

MsDora - Thank you for stopping past. I like the quote by Horace every bit well. Why hide wounds that haven't healed? Hope you have a good calendar week.

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on December 05, 2016:

Martie - Thank you and so much. I promise people enjoy information technology.

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on December 05, 2016:

Heidi - Never!?! I'm still friends with the important ones considering they helped to make me me who I am. Thanks for stopping by! I capeesh you lot!

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on Dec 05, 2016:

Jo - Thank yous so much for your sweet encouragement. Have a wonderful week ahead!

FlourishAnyway (author) from U.s. on December 05, 2016:

Gypsy Rose Lee - I love the new, the old and the in-betwixt. Glad you lot saw some new ones every bit well as familiar ones. Thanks for stopping by!

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on December 05, 2016:

Linda - Cheers for reading anyhow! I appreciate your sticktoitiveness. Have a wonderful calendar week.

Linda Crampton from British Columbia, Canada on Dec 05, 2016:

I oasis't heard of any of these songs, merely I always capeesh the musical education I get past reading your articles. I'll have to expect out for some of the songs that you lot've described. They sound interesting.

Dora Weithers from The Caribbean on December 05, 2016:

Don't know any of these songs, but l read through the article and I especially honey the quote past Horace. True on many levels and in other situations also love.

Gypsy Rose Lee from Daytona Beach, Florida on December 05, 2016:

Fascinating listing of songs. you know I am an quondam oldies fan and get into music as far at the 1990s Beyond that they lost me in the change of the century. What is interesting here is that I don't know any of these songs so I'll bank check them out. A great task on this hub as e'er.

Martie Coetser from Southward Africa on December 05, 2016:

I think this is a very useful list of beautiful songs! Thank you, Flourish! Yous lists are well organized.

Heidi Thorne from Chicago Area on December 05, 2016:

The interesting thing is that I've never been in this situation... e'er. Then even though I tin can't relate personally, I ever like your playlists. :) I similar "Problem" the best. And cheers for the 80s throwback John Waite's "Missing Y'all." Happy Monday!

Jo Miller from Tennessee on December 05, 2016:

Another great list! You practice such a good job of this.

FlourishAnyway (author) from United states on December 05, 2016:

Larry - Thanks. Hope you are doing well.

FlourishAnyway (writer) from USA on Dec 04, 2016:

Nell - Ha! Don't we all-- some for the improve and others not so much. Cheers for reading!

Larry Rankin from Oklahoma on Dec 04, 2016:

Another nifty list:-)

Nell Rose from England on December 04, 2016:

Swell list Flourish, beloved some of these, and a few I had never heard of before, but yeah I practise still remember a few X's! lol!

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on December 04, 2016:

Nib - Mine, too! I dear Rascal Flatts' ballads. Very sentimental. Have a happy calendar week ahead!

Neb Kingdom of the netherlands from Olympia, WA on December 04, 2016:

"Moving On" is one of my best favorite songs. It is haunting, sweet, and beautiful....and at present I recall I'll go listen to it. :)

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